If we see someone getting choked up while leading worship, our response is, “What beautiful authenticity.” If we ourselves get choked up while leading worship, our response is, “Get it together you baby!” Yep, it’s hard to face those moments without berating yourself. But let’s try to approach this situation wisely. Here are some perspectives to guide you when the tear-filled moments hit.
Don’t Fight the Moment
Authenticity in worship speaks louder than polished performance. If you can’t sing because tears are flowing and your throat locks up, don’t force it. Step back from the mic, raise your hands, and simply worship. Let the music continue and allow the congregation to sing it out. Those moments are powerful. They can even break the congregation out of the routine of worship and bring them back to encountering the living God.
Lead by Modeling Vulnerability
It is okay to be undone by God’s presence. More than okay, it is a beautiful thing. I mean, we are singing to the God of the universe here. The God who saved us from death and hell. Let’s be honest, we aren’t undone often enough! Being visibly moved gives others permission to open their hearts as well. You don’t have to apologize for emotion, many people long to see genuine expressions of faith. By letting your congregation see your tears, you’re showing them how to run to the Lord with honest, raw worship. Now that’s worship leading.
Have Practical Ways to Regroup
While it’s important to be authentic, it also helps to have a plan. We can’t be taking the stage just to cry non-stop for twenty minutes every Sunday. If you sense emotion building, maybe take a step back from the mic, signal your band to keep playing, or let an instrumental interlude give you space. Taking a moment to regroup can help steady your voice enough to continue. If you’re often overcome by certain songs, spend time with them privately in your personal worship, letting God meet you there before Sunday comes.
Final Thoughts
Getting choked up while leading worship is not a failure, it’s often a sign that the Spirit is moving. Don’t view those tears as an interruption to worship, but as part of it. Your authenticity, your willingness to step aside, and your example of surrender may be exactly what your congregation needs to see. Some wisdom is required here. Some moments call for allowing your emotions to flow over, while other times call for a step back to regroup. Remember, God’s advice is just a prayer away. Don’t overthink it, don’t be hard on yourself, just focus on God and you’ve already done the right thing.
